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Time management

How to cease to be late? We care of punctuality

From a diary: I am late, because I start to gather at the last minute, because it is a pity to me to waste time on preparing in advance because when already it is time to leave, I find out a dirt on boots. I cannot recollect, where have left jeans what today lectures at institute, and that I will read on road there and back.

In the course of gathering I always include music which should be chosen "under mood". Suddenly, I suddenly realise, that have not eaten, and, God forbid, to tell about it to mum who starts to rush about for me on apartment with tea and with a sandwich while I need urgently for someone to be called.

Or, instead of quickly having breakfast, I take the book in kitchen, I chew thoughts instead of a cutlet, is over tea oath I promise to itself to finish this page only... (This chapter... This book...) and at once to take off a bullet from apartment. I leave on a stop, I wave a hand to promptly leaving bus and 15 minutes wait for the following, considering assortment of a booth from all possible points of view...

Here today, for example, in the course of expectation, I have bought hygienic lipstick which smells sweet as cherry jam. And couple of weeks back I have got a set of luminescing asterisks... There is no evil without good.

Some people (more often - women) are late deliberately, after all where we would not be late - we draw to ourselves attention. Coming into office, on a party, on performance after the others, we turn on ourselves looks of the present. All is reduced to cheap search of attention which does not suffice us in other situations.

Sometimes the reasons are covered in our subconsciousness. If the person somewhere is late, means, it not so would like to go there! Probably, there, where you "aspire to be late", there is any conflict situation, there is something, that to you not to liking. Then you dare to spend general cleaning, to make washing and to walk on shops. Usually after all on it time does not suffice.

Your delay can be also the protest reason. You rise against any dictatorship from the outside, for example, it can be the firm management requirement to come for work exactly by 8 o'clock.

You already are late. Be late seriously enough. To you the thought comes to a head: "And, all the same I will not be in time. Even to hasten it is not necessary".

How with it to struggle?

Following principles will help you not to be late:

Necessarily ask itself a question: and why it is necessary for me to cease to be late? The reasons can be a little: dismissal threat, award deprivation and so forth When you can motivate necessity to come strictly in due time, you will cease to be late. In other words, you need to pass from level "to be late well/badly" for level "to me it is not necessary/is necessary to come in time".

Put the timer, taking away a certain interval of time for each action carried out in the course of gathering. For example, 5 minutes is required to you on washing, 15 minutes for a breakfast, 10 minutes on clothing etc. Necessarily get an alarm clock for the period of an exit from the house and if he calls, and you yet have not finished the previous action - throw everything, you should hurry, the bus (the electric train, the plane) to wait not begins.

Sometimes people intentionally translate hours for some minutes forward. It not an exit. First, to live nevertheless it is better according to real time as, otherwise, you, perhaps, will start to confuse day with a night and to live "not from this world", in general will lose count of time.

Secondly, not so it is easy to spend your subconsciousness - it will remember, that you in a stock have exactly that quantity of minutes on which you have translated hours, and all of you equally will be late, even with the translated arrows.

Reflect, on what you spend that hour which you should spend there where you should be? You after all precisely know, what is the time it is required to you on gathering. It is learnt practical by. After all we repeatedly carry out, day by day, the same actions. Note time. Gather longer the others? Recognise behind itself this feature and rise on an hour earlier.

Prepare for an exit from the house since evening then there will be no variety of problems: what to put on, where to take stockings where my jacket who has hung up a jacket in a case has got to?! Indulge itself for each arrival to the appointed place, in due time, with a small gift.

If your delay are caused chronic недосыпанием and unwillingness to leave a berth - go to bed earlier. It and for health is useful.

When already nothing will help …

From a diary:
October began so: it would be time and work to begin … New Year soon, the award... Perhaps it makes sense to cease to be late? Only three months remains …

November: well it is fine, let with liquidation of delay left nothing, but last two months so I will work - a little will seem to nobody, and to me will pay the award... And still it is necessary to cease to be late. Or to be late for smaller time.
December: yes the God with it with it, with this award!

If, despite of everything, you and could not limit yourselves both the standard norms, and strict time frameworks, do not despair, you have an exit! Search for a place where will estimate your abilities where will shut eyes to your hostility of a labour discipline. The main thing - perform the demanded volume of work.
Search for the place in the world!