Success psychology
If your success became a problem for the man
When the woman achieves the big successes, than the man, last for some reason starts to worry. A stronger sex self-estimation - their weak place. There is a jealousy and even diligently hidden insult, it becomes suspicious and nervous … In heads of men the fact does not keep within, that we, naive, fragile and defenceless, can do something better. To keep your love, it is necessary to bring to nothing those friction which at you can arise in this occasion.
If you do not want, that the favourite was strained by your professional successes, observe simple rules:
- Never respond about its work and colleagues haughtily. Only validly. Certainly, you in something have surpassed it, but he should not guess it! Convince him, that it – is the best. For the man it is very important.
- Let to it know, how much it is perspective. What he has achieved now, – only the beginning. Tell, how your acquaintances admire with its working capacity and diligence is will work. He will by all means want to become even better.
- Support it. Your support, understanding, an insight – that is necessary for it. Even if it also will not reach your level, no negative reaction to your achievements at it will exist.
- Help it. If you in forces to make something for it in the field of career – to talk to the chief, colleagues, something to help with the work – never neglect it. You together to care about each other!
In each opinion for certain is both a true share, and attempt to protect the "" floor. Try to look at things not subjectively, and objectively. So you can avoid the most important error – attempts of "blanket pulling». Successes!