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Development of the person

The imperious woman

Features of the power

You are allocated by the power on manufacture and unscrupulously use it? Means, you властолюбица, at the head of a corner for which always stood authoritativeness and dictatorship. You make exclusively true decisions – at least as it seems to you, – and rigidly supervise their performance. In an arsenal of your power are constant punishment or dismissal threat, – it is natural, without the severance pay. Your subordinates подавленны also are passive, in them is not observed propensities to innovations, they in every possible way avoid your society, and rare heart-felt conversations with you mean high-grade stresses for wards.

Minuses

You властвование is fraught with industrial scandal as it is interfaced to set of deviations. Revelling in the position and not caring of constructive change of mutual relations with the people, you, most likely:

- Begin to make exclusively erroneous decisions (to that the collective will be inexpressibly glad).

- Will create the adverse psychological atmosphere provoking scandals between workers (experts confirm what exactly wrong board - an essence of mutual misunderstanding on office places). In such cases you risk not only position, but also a head.

- You for certain suppress any initiative, and the creative approach to manufacture from collective can and not recollect.

- You can perceive as not absolutely adequate, stupid and crude young woman to whom the culture and professionalism are inaccessible.

Bonus

However your demonic властвование has a certain appeal. It is surprising to a place at the moment of the greatest instability, a critical situation (a fire, flooding or war). Your lightning reaction, unidirectional energy and unreasonable anger will easily manage to mobilise for the organised actions any heap of people.

Councils

For a long time to keep reins of government and not to lose the power, some correction of behaviour is necessary.
• Supervise emotions, after all angry a thunder-and-lightning mean control loss over own behaviour, that, in turn, leads at the best to administrative infringements.
• Speak with subordinates correctly, expressively and emotionally. Necessarily joke (they, subordinates, love it), but do not sneer and do not sneer.
• Be attentive and patient. If to you the deranged member of collective with the absurd request was declared, it is not necessary to declare there and then to it, that he is an idiot. React easy and scrupulously explain неоправданность applications.
• Study to listen subject to you. Do not strain, but also do not distract at all from a monologue speaking. Not be indifferent, even in spite of the fact that to you it is absolutely unimportant about what бубнит the interlocutor. Remember, the employee convinced of your interest, it is easier to operate.
• Refuse inappropriate and impolite remarks to wards. The tactful power is accepted even most отъявленные by rebels.

In a family

Psychologists consider, that half of the women allocated with the power are inclined to correct in a family. In dialogue with children and благоверным they is dashing compensate the not positive sensations and nervous conditions, quite often pass to shout and physical influences. Without discrimination chiefs suppress all authoritarianism and pedantry.

Such it is difficult to adjust warm and friendly conditions in a family. Inflexibility and sequence of their decisions always dominate over пластикой and the compromise.

As a result there is a risk:

- Definitively to forget to understand members of household

- Very soon to cease to correspond to their expectations

- Never to understand private world of children and their features.

In bed

And the sexual power, the same psychologists confirm, grows out of an inferiority complex brought from the far childhood or impossibility to realise itself in other field. Therefore, such power will promote that

- Very soon above-named complexes will become a maniacal dominant

- Undoubtedly, the woman will catch absolutely indifferent or, on the contrary, the aggressive partner

- The lady will lose possibility to receive physiological pleasure as all its forces will be thrown on observance of own bed interests.