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Barbarian Diordieva - the lawyer, an analyst.
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The woman to be easier?

 With all consequences following from here for those who is able to tell in time "yes". I understand, that now many women work not for money-glories-career, and is simple not to grow dull at home and to feel a self-sufficient link. But it does not mean, that the immemorial ladies' vanity and aspiration to a competition do not compose daily in a head the plan of how to become a favourite number one. Let even for a short while.

 Is not present, of course, I trust, if it mother of five children, ежевечерне darning stockings to the members of household, it will have no time for sex appeal and not before intriguing games on work. But we will speak about those whom home life has not deprived of possibility to feel the woman from the big letter.

 Certainly, at the first personal interview with the boss the woman automatically carries it to one of categories - or «I would wish», or «my God, упаси». I will notice, what even the same jokes from bosses from these categories are perceived differently. In the first - as lovely shamelessness and, probably, advances; in the second - as тошнотные greasiness. Official data by quantity of the women tempted on work, and also the reasons which have led to it, do not exist. But there are informal. So, 74 % of women recognised, that would be not against more steadfast attention from the boss under condition of its appeal.

 Yes, the return would be strange, after all whatever true wife or the girlfriend you were, signs on the special relation from the man, especially successful and self-assured, are always pleasant. Also such eccentric women who unequivocally reject any "non-working" moments, but their minority - only 12 % However, come across.

 Other ladies represent for themselves such situation as inconvenient. About, and I understand them. After all such "overindulgence" with the boss can lead to a considerable quantity uncontrollable us of consequences, that before to make the following step to it towards, the time-out on detailed meditations is simply necessary.

 All the same the man, moreover the stranger, moreover the chief is a being from other planet, whose train of thought concerning the concrete lady to foresee difficult. As he too perceives similar relations as game which, most likely, he and has thought up, and to play unfamiliar game by rules which you do not know, very much and very difficult.

 Therefore to translate these relations from the category hypothetical in the real venture no more than 42 % from those who is unequivocal not against. The Most widespread causes of a failure to itself in similar pleasure of the woman named:

 1. Fear, that all becomes known to their husband (friend) - 48 %.

 2. Fear of that then it will negatively affect their career in the given company - 32 %.

 Let's glance for these figures. Both those and other fears are not groundless. After all in the first case can bring not only excessive inquisitiveness and garrulity of separate persons or a casual meeting with благоверным at an exit from restaurant and other discrepancies. Here the woman can bring itself.

 Yes, of course, it supervises houses each word and action, but nevertheless women live emotions, therefore the euphoria caused by new impressions, all the same can appear noticed. Then there will be a heap of unnecessary questions and suspiciousness awakening. As they say, on the thief and the cap burns.

 And it is fine, if her husband (friend) is in equal or even higher status with its boss. And what, if more low? Much more low? Then willy-nilly it starts to put the husband and the boss on the scales measuring tons of its vital pleasure and well-being.

 And here there are they before it, from one blows as money and overseas resorts, from another reliability and general past. The similar dilemma - an occasion to a nervous breakdown, is not less. Yes, of course, last - native and, probably, once favourite, but the first can become a gate in the light future with own boutique and «Лексусом». Here it is necessary to count the tomorrow, risking it is not less, than the beginning stockbroker. And suddenly I can not support interest to for a long time? And suddenly there will be a new favourite? Suddenly to the wife it counts money for expenditure on copecks? And such "suddenly" the head of the woman will be tormented with hundreds. And these "suddenly", in effect, instead of uncertainty in and own forces, also had been born the second, the most frequent, a cause of a failure from novels with chiefs.

 Even silliest of you understands, that as you are frequent slept with the boss, it will not secure your career and salary growth in its company. And if it stumbles, will make or that will tell not, out of place or simply to it will bother, whether it will throw out it on street together with all dreams of the best life? After all at all not having given any material benefits actually, this person has presented to it at least possibility to dream about similar and to see it as the let illusive, but the future. And to fall therefrom in a nightmare of a polutorki-five-storey apartment block, a constant life on credit and drivings by a trolley bus very unpleasantly.

 And she knows, that, having tried even on a pinch of other life, now she will hate the husband that it could not give to it such. Therefore each time when you pay attention to someone from the subordinates, you can be assured, that before it there and then there is a question that is better - a titmouse in hands or a crane in the sky. What bowl of scales will move this time - it is not known. All the same the woman to be much more difficult.