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The business woman: a phenomenon essence

To distinguish the future business woman it is possible at school: she is the girl capable, but, according to teachers, sometimes with hooligan manners. And actually she simply protests against school муштры, struggles for freedom, aspiring simultaneously to knowledge and the power.

Often she behaves as the boy because it already at teenage age is oppressed with a difference of requirements to two floors. It proves the right not to be the good child as it often is required at school from girls. And study is given to it easily even if it at times does not learn lessons.

The first difficulties appear at institute. Often the selection committee operates, that is called, to a sexual sign: to girls it is given less preferences at examinations, than to young men. How one old professor spoke, «what for to waste time on young ladies? All of them it is equal after the termination will marry the provided men, will not work, will be engaged in the house and children. Only from young men it is possible to bring up the present scientists, and on them it is not a pity to waste time and forces».

Alas, it is the point of view of many teachers of the higher school, especially fanatics of the business. But future бизнесвумен is not going to limit at all itself diapers and kitchen! However teachers you will not overpersuade, and consequently at times it is more difficult to girl to enter the institute, than the young man. Especially there, where it is not enough young men or where the speciality initially is considered "man's". And if such girl nevertheless makes the way and arrives, it is possible to be assured: on mental abilities it it is ready above those young men that has been accepted together with it.

In students the business woman starts to provide to itself financial independence. The grant at it often not raised, and the most usual (because its estimations do not reflect its real level of knowledge), but earns additionally during study it practically always.

Besides it conducts an active social life. After all besides it has a high mental potential, she besides the lady vigorous and this energy tries to spend not on trifles and to achieve something defined in a life. In particular, being engaged in social activity, it lays the foundation for the career and satisfies the aspiration to the power. During former times such girls became Komsomol leaders, now they from a student's bench start to make the way in business.

Women since a youth aimed at career usually do not have time to get a family.Они confidently go to the planned purpose - to an armchair of the chief. They do not reflect on a family, postponing it on then. To reflect they begin more close to 30, having received a post.

As for achievement of this post they had to apply much more intellectual and strong-willed efforts than to men at the given level they are surrounded with men who to women seem unworthy them. Such women wish to see near to themselves the strong, succeeding person, but just such men would like to see tenderness and weakness in the woman.

The business woman, in an ideal, is the outstanding personality, it is womanly, is not severe and is not cold, is intellectual and is physically active, decisions accepts itself, but perfectly catches moods of others; petty guardianship of subordinates is unusual for it. She is ready to risk, is purposeful, self-assured, adequately reacts to criticism, remarks and even insults. It is able to be switched operatively from one social role ("the head, the business woman) to another (" the daughter, mother, the wife "), is assured of understanding, support and the help from the husband and children.

The ascension on a success ladder has appeared business heavy and unsafe. The business woman should prove constantly to itself and associates that is engaged in the business. About all 1/3 nervous breakdowns at the business lady occurs from collision of their role of the head on work and the executor of the house.

But the woman has a number of advantages, having realised which, it can become the successful head. The Woman-leader possesses more thin social intelligence, it is more thin feels nuances of relations, including the relation to. She is able to estimate and predict behaviour of other people. However, she more than men, is trapped by danger to follow the tastes of the emotions. And истеричность and leadership - is things incompatible.

The woman possesses большей контактностью and a thinking practicality. If the man is inclined to make long-term plans and to count on long-term prospect the woman prefers particularly guaranteed result - "here and now". The woman better the man supervises and another's errors. It, as a rule, formulates the thoughts is better and expresses ideas. It is noticed, that it is less, than men reacts to courtings and sexual claims in business relations. She accurately distinguishes business and entertainments.