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Lady Boss and the man

To be difficult more successfully the favourite person

What do I do not so? Well? I nice, clever, earn money … That still is necessary for it? What it to answer? The most simple and painful variant - it needs not "still", and something absolutely another. To the man it is difficult, is practically intolerable to think that its girl has achieved большего success, than it.

Yes, fortunately, we have gone through philosophy of Tajikistan of the fiftieth years of the twentieth century when the bride money for the bride was the less, than it is more at it formation. And, most likely, it will be proud, if its girl has ended university, works on a prestigious post, reads Kafka, Зюскинда and Dostoevsky.

However at all it she should manage to be womanly, to redden at obscene expressions and it is obligatory to earn less!

And what to do, if you perfectly know how to collect furniture, to choose the computer if you have received a technical education, occupy топовую a position in the firm and receive for it the worthy salary? Well, well, all is a little bit easier - you like an active life, be able to communicate with people and earn at least two thirds of its earnings. He does not allow you to buy that wine which was pleasant to you, is simple because took not enough money, and in the company with the woman for all the man should pay. He sincerely does not understand, that you have enough brains that most to choose a cellular telephone. And any attempts to explain, that at you with men exclusively business partner relations will come across dead silence. And the constancy in this question frankly exhausts soul.

When you come home after it to your amazed sight the plate from under sandwiches and a can of beer, most likely, will open, and your not less amazed ears will reach: "As it is good, that you have come, I have already got hungry. What at us today will be for a supper?". And when you fall without forces on a sofa and try to tell about what mad quantity of affairs to you should be altered, it at the best waves away and continues to watch TV, and in the worst starts to explain, that your work is a nonsense, and here last football match - really universal importance event. But it, let and hardly, it is possible to take out all. It becomes most terrible after than you, beautiful and clever, talented and charming, leave.

And after a week you meet him with another, and guess - as such could occur, after all it - obviously is sillier than you, works for hundred twenty dollars a month and it is good, if the most terrible frog of a local bog "can argue for a rank" not. And you also are glad to use councils of the psychologists, recommending to find in any parting the reason for personal growth, but understand, that here you can fall only, and, most likely - below a plinth. Certainly, to fall to level which would suit your favourite person it is impossible. And it not an incidental figure in your life that before it it was possible to play a comedy, pretending to be small and fragile, - sooner or later you will get tired from constant фиглярства. To re-educate men - business in advance useless and senseless, and if to search for the person of worthy, it is possible to reach the absurd remark from "Moscow to tears does not trust": "Unless the minister what single will get".

And here there is a problem - to fall below the level it would not be desirable, and "it is not enough princes and on all of them does not suffice". Many girls make a conscious choice - reconcile to the majority of "household" trifles for the sake of "the big and pure love", however it very quickly exhausts, as there is a discrepancy of the price and quality - give and forgive much, and receive it is not enough.

There is quite real possibility for a modern society in general to avoid dialogue with the man, but not it is comprehensible to all for the most various reasons, therefore the majority of women appears sooner or later in rather unpleasant situation when there are one simply because to them have preferred more simple both house being. And no admonitions of girlfriends help to get rid of feeling of deep disappointment in the device of this world and depreciation of own successes.

 It would be desirable to cry: "What for it is all?" - and to run away to Mars, to lay down there under a stone and silently to hate all mankind. Or it is necessary to be engaged in one thousand things only not to sit at home in loneliness. But nevertheless relations with the person hardly less successful, than you, are possible. As well as happiness. Certainly, each case is individual, and any ready recipes cannot be. If the man is irritated at the sight of your successes it means, that you give attention to its achievements a little. The majority of problems with men frequently dare by means of hearing, after all they really very much do not love, when the woman stirs about itself as nevertheless the humanities and social trades which demand much to communicate much, get under fair sex jurisdiction while not the fine is engaged in silent mechanisms, accordingly our habits and skills of dialogue very strongly differ, and it too can generate absolutely unnecessary conflict.

The most terrible, that it is possible to tell: "I at you the clear head, the beauty that else it is necessary for you? What I need to make, what you would be with me?". Because the unique answer which can follow - anything. Certainly, the most important is a desire to be with this concrete person but as the basic alternative, it is possible to recommend … to find to it new work. If it is not enough knowledge - to send for study. The most important thing, with a personal example to infect the person, to try to find to it new business. It is a unique reliable way. Not to go down to it, and to pull it upward. Not to accustom it to own perfection, and to force it to develop. And the most important thing - if at it all will turn out, it will mean only that, as you stand much. So the place to perfection in this world all the same can be found.