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The super-woman. Whether it is necessary to the man?
The image of the ideal woman at each man the, also is symbiosis of very many advantages. But one-two qualities, as a rule, this image dominate. It also is guided by them at a choice of the spouse. Nobody is going to challenge that fact, that many men marry exclusively on sincere love, But nevertheless something else except deep feeling or ardent passion helps them to make a choice.
Ladies always would like to glance in bowels of man's subconsciousness and to find the treasured formula of an image of the superwoman, to manage to win the heart of any liked man, But whether you can, at last having learnt composed this image, to realise it on an own example? And whether your elect will be glad to the woman absolutely deprived of any lacks?
The MOST CHARMING and ATTRACTIVE
Many women believe, that men love exclusively eyes, therefore and do all to bring the appearance to perfection. Increase the size of a breast and correct the nose form, swallow of tablets for growing thin and suffer pricks against wrinkles. And to someone the beauty gets "for nothing" — on envy to another, less generously presented with the nature. But whether is bright appearance pledge of a successful marriage, a guarantee of what nearby always there will be worthy men? Men really like beautiful women, with it will not argue. Probably, many would like, that their girlfriends corresponded to their personal representations about female appeal. This absolutely natural desire, and in it is not present anything reprehensible. The another matter, how much this line dominates, how much the man зациклен on female beauty. And here there can be rather various variants. The one who constantly underlines, what at its darling a fine skin, a seductive waist and magnificent hips, literally words is enamoured by eyes. To it it is important, that its girlfriend was womanly, charming and sexual. Probably, it not unique criterion of a choice, but predominating. And other female qualities play a supporting role: they can be or not, it is not so important, as for beauty «it is possible to forgive much». Therefore successfully enough at times marry «charming стервочки» and «dear squabblers». Some men simply are pleasant like heights, and the bright woman — one of them. Having broken from the sky such star, the man receives the next acknowledgement of the solvency. And if the recognised beauty has paid to it attention, means, it is really worthy admiration. Probably, it in the childhood praised insufficiently or put to it all new and new purposes which it should reach.
Someone simply likes «to play with fire», at first submitting the unapproachable beauty, and then, trying to keep nearby, competing with competitors. For this purpose "adventurouses" often leave with the charming girlfriends to the public. Interest to the wife from other men kindles passion in the husband even more. He sees, that his wife is pleasant to much, but only it one has the right to possess it. It madly flatters its vanity. Such by the beautiful woman helps the man with its self-affirmation. But at the same time it is impossible to tell, that beautiful wives are chosen by exclusively diffident men with unsatisfied vanity. Self-sufficient, self-assured men simply consider, that the female beauty and man's mind well supplement each other, are successfully looked in steam. And some men, from among handsome men, simply do not think near to themselves of other woman. Knowing themselves the price, they want, that wives outwardly corresponded to them. And it is frequent behind it does not disappear any secret intention.
For many external appeal of the lady — something self-evident. But thus they do not do of beauty of a cult and perfectly realise, that in the course of time this advantage if does not disappear, but it, anyway, varies not an occasion to leave. After all the external beauty can pass in other quality, for example in beauty of soul.
The MOST SILENT and UNPRETENTIOUS
Happens and so, that the visible man marries outwardly imperceptible woman or successful, высокообразованный, the intelligent inhabitant of a megacity chooses in spouses the very young girl from remote places of all with восемью formation classes. This woman with usual "greyish" appearance, modest, unpretentious and house also is for them a real embodiment of the superwoman. And the reasons for that can be a little. On the one hand, the man making such choice, осознанно does not want a competition from the wife. It should not be cleverer, more beautiful, more successful at all. It can be the leader in a family only. Therefore the wife who is carrying out absolutely certain role — mothers of its children and the mistress of its house is necessary to such man. Often the woman is not authorised even to work, and all forces it is obliged to focus exclusively to house duties. Certainly, he understands, that from the lady with bright appearance and two higher educations to expect such feat of self-sacrifice is almost useless. But born «a grey mouse» — the woman since the childhood hammered, searching for a strong, imperious hand of the man, is directly created for this role. At it enough own complexes not to be put out from a cosy mink. According to the man, she all life will thank him that he has chosen it. And consequently begins to admire, please, suffer it indefatigably any tricks and all to forgive. Though "house" women — excellent housewives leave not necessarily hammered, outwardly unattractive girls. Some absolutely voluntary pass to a house way of life, give birth kiddies both piously and adequately store the family centre. And they do not require at all sympathy as are certainly happy. The same who disagrees with the role, at times it is necessary is unsweetened. The man who created «the wife under itself» which wishes to order and demands implicit obedience, will aspire to brake in every possible way it in development and will not allow it to become better — more beautifully, more cleverly, more independently. In such situation one women and remain victims, others find in themselves forces and boldness to leave the person, taking away it a role of the furniture silently standing in a corner. Wives - of "grey mice» also prefer also desperate ревнивцы or losers. After all some men simply leave themselves when other steams of eyes look at their "own" wife. And with the spouse - «a grey mouse» this possibility is reduced to a minimum. Though objectively this man likes women bright, underlining the sexuality, but they correspond to an ideal image of the mistress, rather than wives more. And the one who already loved once the beauty and "has painfully burnt", when it has waved with a hand at parting, next time goes another by.
The skilled and adult woman — an ideal of the weak-willed man. With the wife-mum it is possible покапризничать, on its shoulders it is always easy to shift responsibility.
The STRONGEST and INDEPENDENT
The modern woman carries out set of social roles. It gets education, gives birth to children, does career and watches the house. Well, than not the superwoman — an ideal nominee in the wife for any man? All is able, all is in time, always it is possible to count on it. But after all not to each man to liking these new female advantages. And excessive activity, purposefulness and independence can even irritate other men. To the man starts to seem, as if the woman competes with it and tries to challenge its natural priority, the legitimate right for leadership. That is the successes the wife undermines its self-trust, at all not putting before itself of such purpose. Simply she with all consults, and he starts to feel the otioseness, uselessness. And it is quite possible, that, not having found in the spouse of purely female weakness, it will go to search for that to which its protection is necessary. That from which he can feel itself(himself) the real man. But it concerns men by all means it is necessary for them to understand the superiority over the woman. Meanwhile it is a lot of men all the same are able to appreciate women who earn money and reach heights in self-education. Such wife will not allow to the man to relax, lower a hand in a difficult situation. Its vigour will help to aspire together forward and to achieve good results. Strong natures are not afraid of active women, and respect them and are proud of their successes. Usually in such families of the spouse recognise the mutual rights to decision-making. Though here again there are warps. When in a family two leaders — the man and the woman, it is frequent not to enter conflicts, they as though divide territory on which each of them can fully dominate. In that case there is a real danger of isolation of spouses when everyone starts to live the life. Other independent steams can have habitation separate of the spouse and the personal kinds on rest. Such new model «families without a family» is too rational and pragmatic and often exists not for long.
Conclusions of the psychologist
1 Man self-sufficient, without complexes, seldom selects to itself the girlfriend for any accurate criteria. It, of course, estimates female advantages, ноисходя from real, not extravagant requirements, making a start that is necessary for it at the given vital stage. In its choice there will be no warps – orientations on obedient «a grey mouse», the lady of the unearthly beauty, inaccessible "star" from other circle or the severe woman with imperious character. That is its choice will not shock, the wife will not make with it huge contrast. It it will be simple near to that, which to it симпатичноа from which to it it is good which he, eventually, loves.
2 Man with complexes, with the unsatisfied and wounded vanity will try to arrange in every possible way the woman under itself. It begins to demand, threaten, lay down to it conditions. He will start to ego-trip at the expense of the wife in the most different vital planes. And here the woman should or correspond to a desirable image it is primary, or to learn it in the course of a joint life, beat any by to avoid the man who wishes to solve the psychological problems with its help. Much depends on, whether the man is ready to wait, and the woman – to adapt.
3 Woman should not aspire to become "ideal" that it is successful to marry and happily to live in marriage. To correspond to an abstract image – business ungrateful enough and it is frequent проигрышное. It is Enough to be oneself, bringing up in itself only flexibility and ability to make a compromise. But if still it will be possible to try a key to vanity of the man, you will provide with it to yourselves practically absolute success.
The MOST CHARMING and ATTRACTIVE
Many women believe, that men love exclusively eyes, therefore and do all to bring the appearance to perfection. Increase the size of a breast and correct the nose form, swallow of tablets for growing thin and suffer pricks against wrinkles. And to someone the beauty gets "for nothing" — on envy to another, less generously presented with the nature. But whether is bright appearance pledge of a successful marriage, a guarantee of what nearby always there will be worthy men? Men really like beautiful women, with it will not argue. Probably, many would like, that their girlfriends corresponded to their personal representations about female appeal. This absolutely natural desire, and in it is not present anything reprehensible. The another matter, how much this line dominates, how much the man зациклен on female beauty. And here there can be rather various variants. The one who constantly underlines, what at its darling a fine skin, a seductive waist and magnificent hips, literally words is enamoured by eyes. To it it is important, that its girlfriend was womanly, charming and sexual. Probably, it not unique criterion of a choice, but predominating. And other female qualities play a supporting role: they can be or not, it is not so important, as for beauty «it is possible to forgive much». Therefore successfully enough at times marry «charming стервочки» and «dear squabblers». Some men simply are pleasant like heights, and the bright woman — one of them. Having broken from the sky such star, the man receives the next acknowledgement of the solvency. And if the recognised beauty has paid to it attention, means, it is really worthy admiration. Probably, it in the childhood praised insufficiently or put to it all new and new purposes which it should reach.
Someone simply likes «to play with fire», at first submitting the unapproachable beauty, and then, trying to keep nearby, competing with competitors. For this purpose "adventurouses" often leave with the charming girlfriends to the public. Interest to the wife from other men kindles passion in the husband even more. He sees, that his wife is pleasant to much, but only it one has the right to possess it. It madly flatters its vanity. Such by the beautiful woman helps the man with its self-affirmation. But at the same time it is impossible to tell, that beautiful wives are chosen by exclusively diffident men with unsatisfied vanity. Self-sufficient, self-assured men simply consider, that the female beauty and man's mind well supplement each other, are successfully looked in steam. And some men, from among handsome men, simply do not think near to themselves of other woman. Knowing themselves the price, they want, that wives outwardly corresponded to them. And it is frequent behind it does not disappear any secret intention.
For many external appeal of the lady — something self-evident. But thus they do not do of beauty of a cult and perfectly realise, that in the course of time this advantage if does not disappear, but it, anyway, varies not an occasion to leave. After all the external beauty can pass in other quality, for example in beauty of soul.
The MOST SILENT and UNPRETENTIOUS
Happens and so, that the visible man marries outwardly imperceptible woman or successful, высокообразованный, the intelligent inhabitant of a megacity chooses in spouses the very young girl from remote places of all with восемью formation classes. This woman with usual "greyish" appearance, modest, unpretentious and house also is for them a real embodiment of the superwoman. And the reasons for that can be a little. On the one hand, the man making such choice, осознанно does not want a competition from the wife. It should not be cleverer, more beautiful, more successful at all. It can be the leader in a family only. Therefore the wife who is carrying out absolutely certain role — mothers of its children and the mistress of its house is necessary to such man. Often the woman is not authorised even to work, and all forces it is obliged to focus exclusively to house duties. Certainly, he understands, that from the lady with bright appearance and two higher educations to expect such feat of self-sacrifice is almost useless. But born «a grey mouse» — the woman since the childhood hammered, searching for a strong, imperious hand of the man, is directly created for this role. At it enough own complexes not to be put out from a cosy mink. According to the man, she all life will thank him that he has chosen it. And consequently begins to admire, please, suffer it indefatigably any tricks and all to forgive. Though "house" women — excellent housewives leave not necessarily hammered, outwardly unattractive girls. Some absolutely voluntary pass to a house way of life, give birth kiddies both piously and adequately store the family centre. And they do not require at all sympathy as are certainly happy. The same who disagrees with the role, at times it is necessary is unsweetened. The man who created «the wife under itself» which wishes to order and demands implicit obedience, will aspire to brake in every possible way it in development and will not allow it to become better — more beautifully, more cleverly, more independently. In such situation one women and remain victims, others find in themselves forces and boldness to leave the person, taking away it a role of the furniture silently standing in a corner. Wives - of "grey mice» also prefer also desperate ревнивцы or losers. After all some men simply leave themselves when other steams of eyes look at their "own" wife. And with the spouse - «a grey mouse» this possibility is reduced to a minimum. Though objectively this man likes women bright, underlining the sexuality, but they correspond to an ideal image of the mistress, rather than wives more. And the one who already loved once the beauty and "has painfully burnt", when it has waved with a hand at parting, next time goes another by.
The skilled and adult woman — an ideal of the weak-willed man. With the wife-mum it is possible покапризничать, on its shoulders it is always easy to shift responsibility.
The STRONGEST and INDEPENDENT
The modern woman carries out set of social roles. It gets education, gives birth to children, does career and watches the house. Well, than not the superwoman — an ideal nominee in the wife for any man? All is able, all is in time, always it is possible to count on it. But after all not to each man to liking these new female advantages. And excessive activity, purposefulness and independence can even irritate other men. To the man starts to seem, as if the woman competes with it and tries to challenge its natural priority, the legitimate right for leadership. That is the successes the wife undermines its self-trust, at all not putting before itself of such purpose. Simply she with all consults, and he starts to feel the otioseness, uselessness. And it is quite possible, that, not having found in the spouse of purely female weakness, it will go to search for that to which its protection is necessary. That from which he can feel itself(himself) the real man. But it concerns men by all means it is necessary for them to understand the superiority over the woman. Meanwhile it is a lot of men all the same are able to appreciate women who earn money and reach heights in self-education. Such wife will not allow to the man to relax, lower a hand in a difficult situation. Its vigour will help to aspire together forward and to achieve good results. Strong natures are not afraid of active women, and respect them and are proud of their successes. Usually in such families of the spouse recognise the mutual rights to decision-making. Though here again there are warps. When in a family two leaders — the man and the woman, it is frequent not to enter conflicts, they as though divide territory on which each of them can fully dominate. In that case there is a real danger of isolation of spouses when everyone starts to live the life. Other independent steams can have habitation separate of the spouse and the personal kinds on rest. Such new model «families without a family» is too rational and pragmatic and often exists not for long.
Conclusions of the psychologist
1 Man self-sufficient, without complexes, seldom selects to itself the girlfriend for any accurate criteria. It, of course, estimates female advantages, ноисходя from real, not extravagant requirements, making a start that is necessary for it at the given vital stage. In its choice there will be no warps – orientations on obedient «a grey mouse», the lady of the unearthly beauty, inaccessible "star" from other circle or the severe woman with imperious character. That is its choice will not shock, the wife will not make with it huge contrast. It it will be simple near to that, which to it симпатичноа from which to it it is good which he, eventually, loves.
2 Man with complexes, with the unsatisfied and wounded vanity will try to arrange in every possible way the woman under itself. It begins to demand, threaten, lay down to it conditions. He will start to ego-trip at the expense of the wife in the most different vital planes. And here the woman should or correspond to a desirable image it is primary, or to learn it in the course of a joint life, beat any by to avoid the man who wishes to solve the psychological problems with its help. Much depends on, whether the man is ready to wait, and the woman – to adapt.
3 Woman should not aspire to become "ideal" that it is successful to marry and happily to live in marriage. To correspond to an abstract image – business ungrateful enough and it is frequent проигрышное. It is Enough to be oneself, bringing up in itself only flexibility and ability to make a compromise. But if still it will be possible to try a key to vanity of the man, you will provide with it to yourselves practically absolute success.