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Paradox of passion

Whether there is at your mutual relations a paradox of passion? (If these questions will seem to you very actual it is necessary to reflect, … … for example, over relations) When business concerns our own mutual relations, we become often blind. Many search for the justification in words «Love is blind», but whether there is it of that …

To define, whether you are grasped by paradox of passion, answer following questions:

Whether • one of partners more jealous, than another Is?

Whether • one of partners that another has called Waits usually or has come back home?

Whether • It is possible to characterise one partner a word "good", and another a word "bad"?

Whether • Applies one of partners of more efforts for maintenance of conversation and in general dialogue?

Whether • Speaks one of partners "I love you" more often, than another?

Whether • one of partners more attractive to an opposite sex, than another Is?

Whether • There is one of partners less gentle after sex, than another?

Whether • one of partners "Wants to work over mutual relations" more than another?

Whether • one of partners to feel thrown on parties while another feels held down, strained (or temporarily "liberated") tends?

Whether • career of one of partners of more successful, than at another Is?

Whether • one of partners to feel anxiety and uncertainty in mutual relations while another takes them for granted tends?

Whether • one of partners Is irritated with how another behaves in public?

• If you are not married, whether brings up one of partners a question on mutual obligations and marriage more often, than another?

• If you are married, whether brings up one of partners a question on a birth of the child (or the second etc.) more often, than another?

Whether • During quarrels gives one of partners to another such definitions how "it is occupied by itself", "is selfish or inattentive", while that accuses him in "собственничестве", "cavils" and "insistence"?

If you have answered "yes" at least some questions, at your mutual relations there is an element дисбаланса. The more positive answers, the it is more дисбаланс.

Now let's address to the radical reasons of occurrence of problems in mutual relations. We will try to understand, how we appear in situations when besides will we start to play a role of the leader or the subordinate.

Having rethought all questions, anew we will try to answer that in us induces to behave, anyhow. All is interconnected, search for problems in itself.

Rates are high. Good luck in love - one of great determinatives of a happy life. The happiness can be made more accessible, and invisible - visible. Simply look back and reflect.

On motives of the book of Dynes of K.Delis, K.Fillips «Paradox of passion: she loves it, and it is not present it»