Lady Boss and the man
Whether it is necessary to mix friendship and sex?
As they say, the friendship between the man and the woman comes to an end sooner or later with sex. It, of course, happens not always, but is very frequent. A question, whether it is necessary to translate good friendly relations in intimate sphere.
Advantages.
Sex without restrictions. The most obvious advantage is a simplicity in relations. I.e., you have a sexual partner, you should not seek it elsewhere, moreover, your sexual relations are under construction on absence of pressure, restrictions, well and, of course, the emotional party of a question. But it is possible only in the event that both parties well understand, that their such sexual relations to what do not oblige. Both partners are fair with each other as regards both of them have sex and only, i.e. give pleasure each other. And at anybody does not arise think, that other it uses, as, actually, such sexual relations are constructed on mutual use each other.
Council. If you want, that sexual relations have not destroyed your friendly relations, you should be fair with each other. If at someone from you (basically, it concerns a female half), will arise though the slightest hope of something большее, consider it as the beginning of the end of your relations. In 9 cases from 10 such druzhesko-sexual relations do not pass in a serious stage. Therefore, women, do not try to make of the men-friends of serious partners in a life and do not enter with them sexual relations with any far-reaching calculation. Only if both of you want sexual pleasures, and all is limited to sex.
The convenience and comfort factor. Such situation is convenient. Thus, you pass an intermediate stage of flirtation. You do not need to go on appointments, to buy gifts, to invite in cafe or restaurant, to try to guess, that it is pleasant to it. All and so it is clear and is known. You do not need to worry how there will pass a meeting, you feel comfortably with each other both in physical, and in the emotional plan, to you lacks each other are known. Men can not worry, whether there will be a sexual intercourse successful as in any case you remain in good relations and can laugh together then over small failures. Such relations approach people at whom does not remain to time for romanticism, but there is a certain requirement.
Council. Remember that you should be fair before each other, and all points over "and" should be placed. Moreover, you should not extend about your relations to friends, the relatives familiar. You also should not advertise relations publicly. If between partners there is a mutual understanding in the given question simply enough to call. But if the partner/partner in any reasons refuses a meeting, it is not necessary to insist and take offence, as you of anything each other should not. In it sense of such sexual relations. Moreover, the factor of convenience and comfort does not mean, that you should be the lazy lover or the lazy mistress. Do not try to make also impression, simply give pleasure, and to you will answer the same.
Lacks.
Someone necessarily becomes attached, starts to wish большего and to dream of serious relations. And if such desires are not mutual, people will put each other insults, there can be a jealousy. Sex from emotions to separate difficult, but it that you should make if wish to begin sexual relations with friends.
Council. Avoid an instinct of the proprietor. Remember: relations at you free, you should nothing each other. If, for example, you do not wish to meet today, it does not mean, that your partner/partner has no right to meet at this time with someone else. If at heart you the proprietor/owner it is better to you not to begin such relations.
The end to friendship. If to consider the worst scenario balancing on the verge of friendship and love will destroy sooner or later friendly relations, you can in general cease to communicate. Unfortunately, more often all also comes to an end with it. Because as soon as you have passed to physical level, former dynamics of development of friendly relations has disappeared for ever.
Council. If you wish to keep close friendly relations with the person who by misfortune has appeared an opposite sex, it is not necessary to risk. It is necessary to accept safety measures: not to drink together alcohol, not to spend much time alone.
Negative influence on the future serious relations. If the woman from whom at you all is serious, finds out, that you somehow had sexual relations with girlfriends-women, it will be jealous you and it is suspicious to concern other women. The same is fair and concerning men.
«Нарpу end». Such happens very seldom, however it is possible, that romantic feelings will arise from both parties. And when it happens, friendly feelings will outgrow in something большее, than the simple agreement on satisfaction of physical needs. They will outgrow in serious relations with the strong base constructed on friendship, mutual understanding and quivering feelings.