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What women do not take in marriage? Independent research

The woman, All Understanding (ЖВП)

Understands all its problems. Which his wife, as a rule, does not understand. Yes, and that he cannot get divorced from wife, ЖВП too understands. Sometimes the understanding is tightened for many years. ЖВП understands, that should not set superfluous questions, and should on the contrary – not to create any problems. That is, to be always ready.

Including to ask for leave from the work if it had "window", free from the wife, children and work. Low-paid work. Therefore ЖВП gives it on birthday good trousers, курточку for its child and powder to his wife.

ЖВП understands, that it cannot go with it to the sea. Understands, that in the evening he should pay visit to mortally sick mother-in-law with hard sick wife and the offspring with psychological problems. With the same understanding it concerns its arrivals and уходам with a suitcase. It comes, as a rule, for a short while, and leaves quickly – is right after sonorous hard sick wife on its mobile. After its leaving mortally sick mother-in-law breaks doors to ЖВП. ЖВП understands, that doors to open it is not necessary, and knowingly hides, not breathing, in a dusty corner of lonely apartment.

After repair of the armour door which have been taken down from loops by force децибелов of its mortally sick mother-in-law, ЖВП decides to tear with it once and for all. But here it is with a budgetary bouquet of a mimosa and says a magic spell: «You understand all …». On ЖВП this formula operates magically, and she continues all to understand as early as more many years of their unpromising relations. When age ЖВП already allows, at last, to cease to understand all, it remains behind an armour door of the loneliness in full misunderstanding.

I Do not want In marriage (НХЗ)

Generally wants. But all time declares that does not want. Any universal reason together with green little men and feminists have inspired it, that marriage is the legalised prostitution, and to throw in a washing machine pair of socks – unreasonable work for the woman. She does not notice obvious contradictions. Though подспудно understands: something not so. Somehow alone. Especially at night, when behind windows the wind blows and, maybe, it is not too disgusting – pair not such and dirty a sock.

But is not present! It drives from herself these treacherous thoughts and weakness displays! «What for to me in marriage?! I to myself for a life earn! I do not love, when someone flashes before eyes there-here, there-here!» Variants of the sounded motivations and arguments громадьё. It also throws out them on companions occasionally appearing on deserted horizon. And still pays for itself in cafe. And the man – an animal not only timid, but also, as a rule, obedient. Well, it is not necessary, so it is not necessary. Not very much also it would be desirable. You do not want, as you want. Also sparkles НХЗ eyes, shining the sleepless night. And, no, and the thought will flash: «My God, what I the silly woman!»

But there comes morning, dispels night nightmares both again and again she haughtily declares to the next gentleman: «Me sex and business relations interests only!» Yes all right, for God's sake. «And that full freedom of relations» - uncertainly adds on snack. Certainly-certainly, who against freedom of relations? Well, except doctors-venereologists. And those not against – all bread. And once again the sleeplessness at НХЗ because it would be desirable both is pricked, and anybody does not call already.

And here it is successful, both a suit fine, and the business loves. And all continues on habit not to want. And already anybody also cannot. Are afraid. Have got used. All is better – the joint project, unfatiguing sexual экзерсис – anybody should nothing to anybody. She after all wanted it, instead of in marriage, truly? The world in which dreams come true is fine!

I want In marriage (ХЗ)

Full contrast НХЗ. Wants in marriage at any cost, for everybody. That it moves – not clearly. More truly, so it is a lot of reasons what to isolate main till now it was not possible. Time goes. All girlfriends married. Mum orders. It is time to give birth. There are no wedding photos. And so on. Each male who has appeared in radius of reach, is considered as the potential spouse. On the colleague who has invited in cafe, «the black funeral suit» is already mentally tried on.

The business partner be taken by an estimating view, and the new neighbour in a staircase she has already asked to buy breads, has invited to tea and in bed. In the morning ХЗ, having thrown with a dressing gown, cooks coffee and coos, ingenuously looking in its eyes full of horror. In struggle business for an exit in marriage all means are good. Such copies leave excellent "not understanding" wives.

The elect, as a rule, does not justify expectations, because a rough animal with the small salary and why, ah! – she has not married for Ivan Ivanycha. Or Vasily Petrovicha. However, she as easily gets divorced and begins searches of the new husband. Process so senseless and ruthless, as well as its desire to marry.

The woman Regretting (ЖЖ)

Much more terrible version, than the Woman, All Understanding. The complex of fault imparted at early age, does not allow it to construct equal in rights relations with anybody. She always regrets someone. Mum, the daddy, the grandmother, the grandfather. Buys pampers to juvenile nephews and treats the brother for an alcoholism. Performs work for more successful employee for "thanks". The man can always count on a borsch and word-combination plate: «Ah, you my poor!», «has lain down, have a rest» and «it is not necessary, I!» It quickly bothers it.

Even faster its infinite telephone conversations with girlfriends requiring psychological support and trips to Balashikha from Odintsovo at late night by a taxi because the activated coal is necessary to her mother, and to a daddy's cat – means from sexual excitation. However, for the similar lady always there will be an object which can be regretted to the last gasp. Personal happiness to it to what. If to regret there is nobody – it withers, decays and can get a dog in a temper. The unfortunate animal is doomed.

Certainly, the resulted strongly pronounced representatives do not display all scale of specific variety of unlucky persons in private life. We do not consider today mother's daughters, unfortunate wives and шалав the ordinary. However, all have a chance to change, following a principle «Help itself». That is, itself. Because, first of all - the woman. And all the rest – in your power.

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