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Lady Boss and the man

As him to tempt

In an establishment of contacts to women of the man are much shier, than it seems at first sight. Certainly, with rare exception. When the man likes the woman it reacts to it in the basic three ways.

The first is a flatterer who a sweet kind, an insinuating soft voice will extol its advantages.

The second type - the rude fellow. Its speech is aggressive and offensive, he aspires to make not simply impression, but also to suppress the woman, to put in such position that it was more convenient to operate it. Such men usually aspire to seem пьянее, than they are actually, and use rough words.

Men of the third type can turn to the stone statue completely ignoring the surrounding. He hopes, that its reticence and picture poses will intrigue the woman, and she will become interested in it.

When to you ways of a seducing of men are known, it is much easier to pick up a line of conduct in each separate case. When the flatterer, this Casanova, will get the panegyric, eulogising your beauty, do not take in head to smile, redden or giggle silly. It is necessary to remember, that he admires with you not so much, how many wishes to confuse you and to receive overweight in conversation. Apply its game rules, thank, and then praise in the answer. Try, that your compliment was with a double bottom and over it it was necessary to think. For some instants the man will become puzzled, digesting told by you, and during this moment advantage will appear on your party. Go to approach, ask it, shower with questions on career and leisure. Try to learn about it more, whether that it the person who is necessary to you? And as small as possible give information on. If the man starts to be rude, do not pay to its rough words of attention, do not show, that you are offended or shocked. Its roughness it is simple a way to get over you moral advantage, somehow to suppress you. He will try to involve you in dispute - do not go at all on it. Irrespective of dispute subjects - art, a policy, the nature - it you interest only, and he does not know other way to reach you.

Here too the best protection - to start to set questions. The man, compelled to answer them, will stop the verbalisations and will be brought a little down from the positions. It is time to begin an attack. Bombard with its questions, and you will be amazed by how quickly it will cool down and will return to the civilised form of conversation. Here and whether the pleasant person will be found out, disappears behind rough speeches or not. More often the answer will be positive, and affected roughness and recklessness - simply cover behind which the usual person hides.

Most easier to cope with "a stone sculpture". At first sight is the most unapproachable man, but it is necessary to set to it, as though by the way, the casual question demanding the detailed answer, and it will turn to defending party, leaves from gloomy, мефистофельского conditions. And further a usual series of questions of personal character should follow: where he lives, than earns etc. You accompany it as everything that he wanted, is that you have approached the first and have incurred responsibility for all event. But you always will have an advantage in conversation, and only you will define, how much far it will come. Do not allow men to take over you top in conversation, will not be assured yet, that have tamed them.

Men are involved with courageous, self-assured, wilful women - they throw down to their a challenge, they should be submitted. Do not think, that men are rather afraid of modern, self-assured, frank women. They at all are not afraid of them, - they love them. If you have met the man really involving you try to let him it clearly know: show, that to you the conversation with it is pleasant, show interest to his life, hobbies. Then by means of small requests (to bring a glass to substitute a chair) support its feeling of the property concerning you. And time it has felt itself(himself) as your proprietor, you have almost become successful: your new acquaintance will start to protect you from claims of other men, and its mood considerably will raise, when you will let know, that you - together with it. There is nothing man more raising self-esteem and its erotic interest to you, than fight for the sake of you (provided that he always comes out the winner).

If the man wishes, that associates admired with its dexterity, force, courage, money which he earns it is necessary for the woman that appreciated its beauty. The man which not laziness day by day to repeat to the wife: "My God, as you are fine!" - Can feel in full safety: it will not force to wash ware, to lay out on a table the salary, once again to run in shop. And on the contrary, the woman bypassed let even by formal attention to its appearance from the man, will very quickly turn to the shrew: begins to grumble, complain of the numerous sores, to ache and, eventually, to death запилит the husband. The relation of the man to the woman is appreciably defined by desire "to result in a shock condition", to surprise, cause mute delight, amazement by nonfictional histories. The woman in this sense strongly costs on the earth, to it and in a head will not come to shake men by what in her life never was. She with pleasure will allow to surprise herself. It will have enough on it both forces, and attention, and endurance. Women above all adore pleasant surprises.

If the man wishes to relieve itself of the quarrelsome wife, let buys to it every day any lovely kickshaw. If to the woman there is in burden a discontent of the man, let buys nothing, especially to it, but will leave him alone at least on an hour when it will return from work home, and silence is necessary for men, as a hot bath in which they like to luxuriate. In the same way to emotional women is necessary a small sketch which will encourage will give the chance to it to be engaged in what he wants. Them as a cool shower. Men do not test requirement long to speak on the phone, for the woman is one of the greatest pleasures. Hour per day that as it is necessary to be uttered is necessary to them at least. This hour is necessary for men to keep silent. Once Пифагор has told: "the Noble spouse! If you wish, that your husband spent a free time beside you, потщись that it in any other place did not find so much приятностей, pleasures, modesty and tenderness".

To keep the man and to strengthen a family, the woman should remember and observe 7 rules necessary in home life.

1. Never "saw" the husband. To clever the useful and true remark will reach at once, to silly - how many speak, will not reach.
2. Do not try to re-educate the man. Between people the main thing - not to prevent to be oneself in mutual relations to the person, do not force it to change developed habits which give to it pleasure if, of course, they not to the detriment of associates.
3. Render to the husband signs on attention and demand same from it. Attention signs is a style of kind matrimonial relations. It is important only that it was not too importunate and luscious.
4. Do not criticise the husband in the presence of the strangers familiar, relatives, children. Critical remarks even if they are fair, should express confidentially. Besides the constant criticism of one spouse another conducts to discomfort in a family, to conflicts, emotional failures, destroys matrimonial contact.
5. Remember only the good. Ability to remember good is an ability to forget the bad.
6. Be polite. For some reason some quite brought up and polite people on work in a family become rude fellows who constantly dictate, teach, accuse.
7. Protect the health and relatives. Ancient Chinese wisdom says: "Health - the first riches, and the second - a happy matrimony". Watch over health of the husband, force it to go in time to the doctor, to be surveyed, pass routine inspection. The person who does not watch over the health, - the decent egoist as its illnesses go a heavy burden on shoulders of the family.

It is noticed, that the husband and the wife who has lived long in marriage, start to resemble each other. Really, if spouses live in peace, they adopt each other manners, equally react to those or other events, at them identical tastes and habits are developed. They not simply live nearby, they live together for each other, and therefore each of them has the right to tell: "Your life - my life".