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Why men do not pay the alimony

Desire to revenge the former wife. In our country women become the initiator of divorce more often. "If you consider, that will bring up the child himself, here and bring up. And from me copeck you will not receive!" - leaving the husband speaks. Clashing with the spouse, the man forgets about the most important thing - about well-being of the child, doing by its tool to sweep.

Not developed fatherly instincts. If you in every possible way preserved the husband against cares of the child: did not allow to change to it diapers and diapers ("You all сделашь not so!"), to lull kid at night ("Sleep, you tomorrow for work") to drive in a Sunday circle ("Poor, you stuck all the week long), be assured: the alimony after divorce such daddy hardly begins to pay. You have made its dependent in a family. If and before divorce at it fatherly instincts and after leaving from a family it will not show care of the child were not shown.

From the protest. When the woman forbids the father to meet after divorce the child, it does the big error. It has a protest reaction: "If I do not see the child also you from me will not receive the alimony!"

Struggle for a survival. Last years social installations have very strongly changed. During Soviet time more often the man earned more wives, and the great bulk of citizens had identical level of incomes. Now, when the former wife receives much more the spouse, he does not consider necessary to pay to it the alimony from the tiny pay. Besides, in struggle for a survival those are noticed only who nearby. And nearby the new wife and children, and first of all it is necessary to support them.

Moral qualities of the man. This reason is covered behind all set forth above. The father who has forgotten, that its child wishes to eat, put on and study, is selfish and infantile. If the man had a feeling of responsibility, it always would find possibility to help the child.