Family and children
«To me 43 years. For all I the dear doctor. For the wife (in second marriage) — rather quite good husband, for the son (from first marriage) —« педагогически correct », though also a little old-fashioned father. For mum I was favourite unique sonny Володюшка, Vovochka, Vovchik. But only one I know, this violent love of mother lead up to what degree of despair and deep hatred me.
In the USA data of the new research devoted to secrets of family happiness are published. Since 1990 the percent of the Americans considering has sharply decreased, that children are very important for a happy matrimony. As it has appeared, more and more people consider, that a key to family happiness - division of house duties.
I would begin with Individuality. From those qualities which in the future will be appreciated in your child by its friends, favourite people, colleagues... Of what there is an individuality? The complicated question suffices. Many the making. But one I can precisely tell: individuality is made by those lines to which the person has come itself. On the failures and successes, errors and true decisions.
There are some unwritten rules in which we unconditionally trust also which in process of forces try to follow. One of them says, that it is necessary to have a rest in the summer. If to ponder, it is not so clear, why in the summer, instead of, say, in the late autumn when so it is seductive to escape to the warm sea from opposite slush. But we, however, about it not so reflect. Simply since childhood so has developed, that us during this time carried to the grandmother in village, in pioneer camp and if will carry even to Crimea or in Палангу.
Opinion erroneous and not the actual. All our life continuous movement. A large quantity of roads, stops, crossroads. The last if to trust east wisdom, throughout all human life - seven, and on them the person, stopping, reflects, and itself solves the further destiny, choosing for itself the necessary road!
In one thick magazine results of such research have been resulted: 70 % of the men living in a civil marriage, consider themselves single. Thus 90 % of women in this situation consider themselves married. Нестыковочка on the person.
Each person, in such situation, is guided by different motives. Someone very much wishes to become parents, but physiologically is not able to do it; someone wishes to replace the lost child; someone wishes to diversify the life thus. There is a category of the people, wishing to be «as all» and from these reasons of taking children from children's homes; is such which for the account of orphans wish to solve material and housing problems.
On the statistican, the majority of the dissolved people again get a family. Problems of second marriages strongly differ from complexities which wait for a newly-married couple in their honeymoon first in a life. Let's consider the most widespread case in our country: the woman the second time marries, but it already has a child (and, probably, not one) from first marriage. Still before making the decision on joint residing, it is necessary to consider some factors.
The modern woman – эмансипэ and the feminist – often puts itself in a choice situation: the child or work, motherhood or career. That or it, this or that. Two ways different, apparently. Two straight lines crossed only in a point of a choice. But only whether there?
The virus under the name "early development of children" has amazed many young parents of large cities. All have suddenly attended to training to reading since two years, English language and music — from three, further on accruing: драмкружок, a circle on a photo, a choreography and so on …
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