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Barbarian Diordieva - the lawyer, an analyst.
If you had legal issues, the problems connected with realisation of your rights, and also the questions, concerning legislations, write.

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Development of the person

How to survive in the world of men

How to survive in the world of men
As is known, the best council ever given to beginning writers, is that: if you can not write - do not write better. If you, soft, emotional, loving a cosiness and children if you all suits houses, and on work appear career if money suffices you – it is not necessary to go to business is better.

Image and style

How to put on to the careerist

How to put on to the careerist There is a certain arch corrected, concerning etiquette in the field of clothes which the dress-code is called. It influences image of the organisation and consequently, publicly or privately, is the guide to action for employees. In the large companies the rules concerning clothes, are registered in the charter or in the directory of the employee, and sometimes and in the contract. In the small organisations the dress-code, as a rule, is regulated by the oral or written order of the director.

Success psychology

Your way to success

Your way to success

How to live correctly and that means to live not correctly, that promotes success, and that leads to a failure what to do now and how to arrive then - questions which we endlessly set to ourselves.

You consider, that in many your failures others are guilty, you are dissatisfied with the work, the partner in marriage, the country in which live, is dissatisfied with yourself... And you to death were bothered with such life. You ask what to do?

Development of the person

How to cope with irritation

How to cope with irritation
Many of us "close eyes" on any unpleasant or unacceptable lines. In ourselves we "do not recognise" those qualities which can lower our self-estimation, destroy ours "psychological authority". And at the same time we with readiness though and unconsciously, we transfer (project) these qualities on other person. Then it is possible to despise, criticise or avoid dialogue with this person, remaining thus same.

Development of the person

Power phenomenon

Power phenomenon What is the power? Power kinds. How to keep the power? In our society there are negative installations in relation to the power. It is connected by that the power long time was used, and used now, as dictatorship. Dictatorship as compulsion and use of the person, practised from the state structures, from the teacher school, the parent of the house.

Development of the person

To think positively!

To think positively! Recently my girlfriend has stated good thought - «You the pessimist, start to think positively and at you all will turn out!». And, you know, there were rights … Not that that earlier something was impossible to me, but negative thoughts visited very often. Unfortunately, «to think positively» - it is not too easy. Especially, when it is adjusted, initially, on a negative harmony, on failures …

Development of the person

About advantage of auto-suggestion

About advantage of auto-suggestion How to get mentality which would provide favorable circumstances and drew success? There is a great variety of techniques, but all of them are based on any form of auto-suggestion. At these methods weight of names - mental programming, positive thinking, auto-training, self-hypnosis, psychocybernetics, an alpha method...

Development of the person

Human meanness

Human meanness I not the psychologist, and the rights to judge people have no. But... I the person. And I very often faced with such, presently the widespread phenomenon, as HUMAN MEANNESS. Naturally, the negative moments are connected with this phenomenon many, and each of us wishes though a little to insure itself from never to face it in a life.

The rights of women in Ukraine

Gender equality

Gender equality The woman in the politician - the phenomenon which causes today interest all over the world. Not an exception is also Ukraine. The problem of an involvement of the woman in political process is considered through an interaction prism (more often the conflict) floors more often. It has under itself the serious bases which are going back to tradition of carrying out of a dividing side between the female and man's population of the Earth.

The rights of women in Ukraine

The nature of sexual harassments

The nature of sexual harassments It is necessary to remember, that would be erroneous to divide a thing and events on black and white. Actually all is much more multi-colour and colourful. Concerning harassments I wish to tell, that all is far not so unequivocally as it seems at first sight. For today of the woman are more active, than men. And about crisis маскулинности does not speak unless the lazy psychologist. Men gradually depart from an image of the aggressive macho with type installations «You is Jane, I am Tarzan» and «the Woman - joy for the soldier».

The rights of women in Ukraine

Sexual harassments

Sexual harassments

Declaration article 1 about liquidation of violence concerning women of 1993 defines violence as «any violent action to a sexual sign which puts or can do physical, sexual, psychological harm or sufferings to the woman, including attempts of similar actions, restriction or the imprisonment which is taking place in a public or private life».

The rights of women in Ukraine

Rape. The rights and a reality

Rape. The rights and a reality Dear lovely ladies. All of us it is readable terrible articles in magazines and newspapers how someone at an entrance or in the street was overtaken by an awful fate to be обесчесченой. And naturally think «Well, what not I», «How to avoid such situations?», well or «that I could make during that moment?» Visit us behind reading of these terrible articles. I can tell with confidence one – nobody is insured. Well and, certainly, knowing some nuances, it is possible to avoid simply well or to prevent these situations.

The rights of women in Ukraine

Female work: difficulties and operating time

Female work: difficulties and operating time Position of the woman in a society throughout many centuries changed in the most different directions. In matriarchy its value was dominating. During an epoch of knights it was a worship subject, but any more did not play a political life of a society of essential value. Gradually men have more and more superseded women on the second plan, having limited sphere of its interests and influence by education of children and housekeeping conducting. It, naturally, has caused indignation of many formed women. They have begun struggle for the rights.

Lady Boss and the man

Change

Change How many argue on change, and all is not enough. Similar, while there are men and women, this theme and will not manage to be settled up to the end. As the mankind with this trouble struggled: even in rather soft (in this sense) pagan times with изменщиками arrived rigidly enough, прелюбодеяние and remains a favourite sin of mankind.

Lady Boss and the man

Why girls love bad guys?

Why girls love bad guys? Yes, yes, bad. Dream about positive, and love the bad. What stands up for it? Give, try to understand. Actually all is simple. At one my acquaintance is коронный the test: "And what will be if?". Communicating with the man, it mentally asks a question: "And what will be, if we meet hooligans, at night?". If she intuitively feels fear, means, before it not its hero. And so this test did not bring it. I do not wish to press in particular crisis мускулинности and presence фемининных qualities in separate men. I know, you and without that will understand me.

Lady Boss and the man

Paradox of passion

Paradox of passion Whether there is at your mutual relations a paradox of passion? (If these questions will seem to you very actual it is necessary to reflect, … … for example, over relations) When business concerns our own mutual relations, we become often blind. Many search for the justification in words «Love is blind», but whether there is it of that …

Lady Boss and the man

Motives of sex

Motives of sex The requirement for sex is one of base requirements of the person. At the same time, entering intimate affinity, the person reaches one or several purposes from among resulted more low.

Lady Boss and the man

Why men do not pay the alimony

Why men do not pay the alimony Desire to revenge the former wife. In our country women become the initiator of divorce more often. "If you consider, that will bring up the child himself, here and bring up. And from me copeck you will not receive!" - leaving the husband speaks. Clashing with the spouse, the man forgets about the most important thing - about well-being of the child, doing by its tool to sweep.

Image and style

We study in daily self-improvement

We study in daily self-improvement And if you have come into this heading, means, you feel an absolute necessity to read something interesting … To begin with I will try to tell, where and how to study in small and daily self-improvement. This heading will gradually open small secrets for us – beloveds. And now some notes on the FASHION theme.

Image and style

Choice of a business suit

Choice of a business suit
On open spaces CIS there are corporate features in a manner to put on, though and not so obviously expressed. It is noticed, for example, that experts in public relations put on rather respectably, and in many capital banks in clothes of employees ascetic enough and sad style till now is welcomed. So in concept "a modern business suit" present business ladies all the same put?

Image and style

Audit in clothes

Audit in clothes
Any changes in your life, somehow: an exit in marriage, the divorce, new work and other, force you to look in a new fashion at the clothes and something in it to change. The new situation demands new style in clothes. At last has come to open time shutters of clothes and to arrange there audit. A push, probably, your new post, moving on a new place, anniversary with exchange of new ten has served or easier to shake up desire all old things.

Image and style

Парманентный a make-up or beauty for ever

Парманентный a make-up or beauty for ever Presently stresses and haste of time for care of self remains ever less. But who does not dream to look well-groomed under any circumstances! This dream becomes a reality for those who dares at a permanent make-up. As a matter of fact it is the same tattoo – by means of the special device into a skin thin needles enter nontoxical and proof dye.

Image and style

Care of nails

Care of nails 1. In advance pick up everything, that it will be necessary for you. Means approaching you for processing кутикулы, medical means or simply basis, a varnish of the necessary colour, pastes or other ornaments, a clamp or the means strengthening a nail.

Image and style

6 recommendations for choice a wedding dress

6 recommendations for choice a wedding dress 1. The budget. Making the estimate of a forthcoming celebration, do not forget to include in cost of your dress such necessary things as a veil, shoes, underwear, a jewelry (or beautiful costume jewellery), beauty salon visiting etc. Besides, do not forget, that practically any dress requires small updating (somewhere to take in, somewhere on the contrary to make more freely), therefore necessarily put in pawn in the budget expenses on the dressmaker.

Lady Boss and the man

How to accustom the man to help on the house

How to accustom the man to help on the house

In order to avoid different interpretations it is necessary to notice, that the following is meant homework in given article: cleaning, cooking, washing, ware washing, etc. Till a birth of children in many families a problem of house duties is not necessary so sharply, as after occurrence of children. With increase in a family of homework becomes much more, and its basic part to lay down on female shoulders. All anything if the woman was engaged only in the house, but the majority of women combines work and the house.

Development of the person

It is a little about jealousy

It is a little about jealousy Generally, all is described and quite formulated for a long time already. There is, for example, in dictionary Ожегова a formulation academic: "Jealousy - painful doubt in someone's fidelity and love". And there is at William Shakespeare a formula poetic: "About, jealousy, the sharp-clawed animal scraping heart!" So like everything, is enough. For the man. But not for the woman. Because it and it always and in all - and in jealousy especially - different.

Notes

Hobby and the future work

Hobby and the future work

Already it is time to delete the "Hobby" column from the standard form of the sent resume. That there is written, as a rule, does not influence in any way the decision of potential employers. On the contrary, serious successes in a nonprofessional field more likely them frighten off.

Electronic library

Lady Boss and the man

About the romantic

About the romantic When speech comes about the romanticist, the majority of women have practically identical opinion that they find romantic: a supper at candles, walk on an evening beach or a joint bath with petals of roses. Besides, the majority of women are assured, that men – absolutely unromantic beings which at candles will prefer to a champagne drink a beer bottle in front of the TV. But frequently men are inclined to romanticism of not less women, simply they consider romantic absolutely other things...

Image and style

To change image

To change image
«To change image» - the most widespread word-combination connected with image which sounds recently too often in sew lives. If to ask representatives of more senior generation: «As often you heard a word« image »in the life about 20-30 years ago?». In the answer we receive … surprise! «Is not present not often, almost there was no it in my life!» - so those speak to whom now for forty-fifty. Probably, to us has carried. Living during «an image epoch», we face this concept almost daily but who can tell with confidence, what precisely understands value of this word-combination «to change image»?